Wow. Well, that didn't work. Here's H's reply to my email: Dear Kimmie,
I have moved on, signed my divorce petition, and, that is all. I no longer live Orthodoxy but choose instead the results and consequences of my decisions. I am awaiting for you to schedule an appointment to file our taxes. Should you not want to than let me know so i may file separately. For over 5 years I stayed my hand from leaving you. 5 years of compromise, confrontation, and, counseling only confirmed my instinct to move on. I do not abide your anger at D17 nor your discomfort with your own self. I was happy with myself and remain happy. Since November, I choose to have CALM in my remaining years.
H.
Sooo......what do I say now? "Sorry you feel that way"? I am not sure it would have made any difference had I not sent it.