Yes.. I noticed.. and that is why I am still here btw !
I have rescinded my resignation from the DBB. And i would like to thank our moderator for his or her reasonableness and hospitality !
We are all "Surviving" on the PT btw.. just in a slightly different more positive manner and with a more spirited outlook ? That is all. What other Thread on this Board has a 1:3 Ratio of postings:views ? I see none.
I did Math ?? How can that be possible... I mean that is like the kiss of death for me.. Math.. I did it ? Yay Me ! I must be SURVIVING.. or something ? Hmmm.. must ponder now..
Thank You J for helping me through this rough time in my life btw.. you are peachy and most keen btw..:)))
So.. I first noticed the Party Thread in the early part of 2006. I just sort of lurked and never posted.
I knew my M was down the tubes then and it was pretty much something that had to be ? My x's mental health issues were very much taking charge of it and I could not compete.. nor did I want to even try to do that ?
Anyway.. What got my attention to the PT was the "differentness" of it and how unique it was .. compared to the other threads..in at that time the MLC Forum.
It was warm and giving.. not needy and wanting. Of course the participants made that happen. Not the subject matter. Always an upbeat group of peeps that basically decided .. well enough was enough ? It was time to take your (our) lives back for you (us) !
So, I liked that alot.. and so did Otto. Even Beavers and Otters were welcome to the PT btw..It is like that ?
So since then I have watched peep after peep come here for Healing.. and levity.. something they need for themselves that they are not able to do on their own.. but find here. I like that.. I like that alot. They come here from everywhere and anywhere to Survive what has had them in an emotional tailspin.. and you know what ?
They win !.. They get stronger and learn about themselves and about why they were in the place they were in ?
The PARTY THREAD is not about treating life as a party.. It is about treating ourselves and each other better than WE have been treated in life by that ex spouse.. and coming together .. to share that feeling of being ok with ourselves. Also, to know that others value us for whom we are ..
I like that btw.. Cheers my friends and pass the doodles.
Wine goes with anything. Anything goes with Doodles. Whining does not go with Doodles. Having Doodles eliminates the need to whine. Wine may lead to whining. More Doodles may be required. More wine may also be required. Otto does not drink, btw.
And then, the Habitat house was sided. So I drank Otto's wine.
