he part that cuts me deepest is that she now hates me more than she loves her S's. She will sacrifice the well-being of our S's to be rid of me and to gain her "happiness." D*mn the consequences. (This is straight out of her mother's playbook.)
Its weird you typed this, because just today I realized just how much H wants away from me. So much that he is willing to see his kids less. That says a lot as my H is a very attached parent, very in tune with their needs. If I died today he could pick up where I left and there would hardly be a bump in the road, make sense? This shocked me today thinking "He sooo wants out of our M, so much so he is giving up time with his kids".
nocode, no contact right now is good. If she brings up her lies again, maybe call her on it. I can't believe she is still STILL lying. How does she think you even got the hotel/number? Does she even wonder that? The 'no' to counseling sickens me. I am so sorry.
