I think it's so fortunate that Chocolate eyes posted to you before others did. he saved you from being sucked into a three letter forum where you'd have been encouraged to "act as if" for 5 years.
True, true, so very true.....(not knocking the three letter forum, just knocking the 'as if', cuz it sure didn't work for me...)
Way to go DMB, amazing. Your wife will thank you for the tough love, she really will. I agree, its hard to watch them in pain, but I have stepped back too. My H is very empty and numb as well.
