Purr
Hi
sounds hopeful
and W sounds like MLC to me
Try to listen in MC
maybe just hear what she is going through
validate
dont be too pushy with your feelings and needs
hear her out for the first session
I say this b/c H and I did MC last year right after bomb
It was too late anyway as h in MLC and unreachable
last year I listened and sessions went ok
when I started verbalizing what I wanted H closed down and refused to go again and finally left
I think in MLC unless the person is really working on themselves and that is in IC and help, they will not be able to reconcile
they are running from themselves only they think its us
so I dont know about your W
take it slow
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow