W claims she is unhappy because of being tied to me and she has D17 convinced that I'm selfish and controlling for staying around when I'm not wanted. So any time I question or challenge anything from W or D17, I'm a selfish control freak. Slowly D17 seems to be growing up out of this to some extent. Not sure if W will ever admit to herself what she is doing and grow out of it. Too many friends and relatives are getting tired of it.
