Worried I found DB too late

[newnamenewlife]

cw68,
Wow. I have been riveted by your posts because your sitch sounds SO much like mine. My H and I still live together and share a bed. H dropped the IDLYA bomb in October yet seems to have no real thoughts of moving out. I go from DBing to crying and trying to convince him that we have so much.

How did you explain the separation to your kids--esp when you all still have dinner together. H& I are not "out" to our kids, as it were. We still eat dinner together as a family almost every night, do things together. H has stopped wanting to go out with me alone, and we are less affectionate--and our older D has taken notice of that.

Anyway, hard as this all is (really, really hard), it is so good to keep meeting people here who are going through the same thing. Hang in there.