Teddie played such a huge roll in the downfall of my marriage that I hated him for so long. I did not know then that if I had been more supportive towards him, wait.....in the beginning I was supportive WE were supportive, then things changed, as his divorce got uglier, they left me out .....Rich was following his wife at 4am to see if she had an OM. I told Rich that he was getting too involved in something that was not his business and not healthy for him to do.
Thats when the secrets started......the phone calls, and me being left out. The further Teddie sank, the further Rich withdrew from, the further Rich withdrew, the more frustration I had. I did not know how to deal with it then. I do now.
My well, Rich is diabetic also. His father died of heart failure in his early 50's, Rich is 43 now. Rich does not eat healthy nor exercise
Although I did know about this a week ago...as he told me, I did not know all the details as I read today.
I'm wondering if this might put a thought into his head of what he had of what he left behind who is still here. Or if he is really still with the ow? I may never know these answers, so I better just start accepting.
I did send him an email regarding todays news. It was full of encouragement for Teddie. I have no more ill feeling towards this man, haven't had any in a long time. He was going through pain of divoce and leaving his 3 children. I guess as Rich's friend he thought he was doing the right thing...helping Rich move along and leave me.
We will see......
Only time will tell us what our future holds.
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
