Originally Posted By: blackfoot
Still attraction is not a choice. Its a response. If you want her attraction, DONT be a puppy.


Color me confused. I thought maintaining my attraction to my mate was my business. Or rather, that it's a 50/50 thing. He has to try to remain attractive, as do I, but I disagree it's only a response. At least it must be more after the first two years when the dopamine rush levels out.