BobbiJo, first I'm glad you got to enjoy yourself. (Going somewhere w/out my Ds and H is something I have never done. Looking forward to doing it w/ friends this summer.) I would have gone for the coffee too. Spago! Yum.
Once again I understand where you are coming from. Months ago I would have been happy to have H tell me he loves me and wants to stay married. Now I am starting to make a list of what needs to happen before I would agree w/ that. I was thinking the same thing today about not being willing to just settle. We deserve to happy BobbiJo. I want nothing more to be happy w/ my H, but I am not going to stay w/ him if he isn't willing to change too.
