Mopsey, just keep dropping those crumbs of friendship. Your h doesn't know what he wants to do, but I think it's very nice that you are still able to talk to him about things. Your h is still an emotional wreck and will be that way for a while. I just hope his therapist can help him. Did he say whether or not he's still on the meds?
I do hope that you enjoyed your day off. Keep yourself busy and find something that you enjoy doing. I'm glad to see that everyone had a nice time yesterday.
Take care.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.