Thanks for looking in. I just noticed that I have been visiting this site for over a year. What a year that has been, its been a year of growth and learning so not as bad as it could have been.
Not a lot to journal as interactions with W have been what is now "normal". She is still all over the place emotionaly which is tougher on the kids than me as they dont quite understand.
I have helped her move and get set up in her cottage so now I am backing off and leaving her to it. She needs to be responsible for what she is doing and maintaining the property without me.
She seems to go through a cycle of changing things because she is not happy . This cottage was what she wanted but she is still not happy , New friends , then she is not happy with them and so on. Still has not figured out that she needs to be happy with herself.