You also gave me the great advice to focus on the main question about answering my goal and is what I'm doing getting us closer or further apart?
I have to think about this every day and every time there is to be an interaction. I hate having the L's involved, but that is the card she threw down 1st, so I have to play it at this point. I will continue to stall and stall and stall for as long as I can with this.
I'm hoping that the more time W has to be completely alone, the more she'll be able to honestly reflect on our situation.
Your analogy of your sitch made very clear sense, so thank you for that. It is good to know we aren't alone here and it really helps to keep going when we have support from others either in the same boat or ahead of us on a very similar path.
