What I suggested on the counseling was that you make it very clear it was "helping the kids through D" counseling - not AT ALL making it about you as a "couple" or friends or anything. It may be too late now.. but wanted to clarify that. I think she may have been more open to that than anything regarding repairing your R.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread