I hope it is only months as well. But it's usually better to be prepared for the worse (e.g. she's never coming back and won't even want to be friends again) since that way you can have no expectations and be pleasantly surprised by good things.

She will probably see any casual messages as pursuing. Give it a few weeks at the least unless you actually need something. Since Feb is a short month, maybe set a goal for March 1st or something? Then send her an e-mail or call that is very casual, just a hey, hope you are doing well kind of thing. Better if you actually have a real reason to contact her. Otherwise, it's better to let her make contact.


Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09
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