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[MichelleLT]

Well, I'm glad he got a job. Hmm, that is interesting that he doesn't want to start today. I guess he's trying to take some time to work up some enthusiasm about the job?

I have definitely known some people who have his attitude about jobs and see something like that as a step down. But jobs that offer tips can be really good paying, especially bartending.

I'm glad he recognizes that he needs to be more positive. Sometimes the hardest part is just getting up and doing things. Hopefully having a new job and some things to look forward to will help. Plus he'll meet some people and hopefully make some friends.

He doesn't sound like much fun to be around lately. In a way it's good he doesn't feel the need to pretend around you, but it must be draining. It sounds like he still needs time to figure things out and get through this transition in his life. It sounds like he can use your support, but he certainly doesn't need you 24/7. You haven't really mentioned going out on your own in a while. I hope you are still doing things for yourself.