This is great! It's nice to have both sides represented, especially on one thread. Butterflymom and her husband, yes, his name is Favorite Weirdo, posted together for a while. As a caveat I must warn Mom of 2 Cherubs that just about everyone on this board is a left behind spouse, and there is a lot of hostility to cheating spouses. Be prepared to hear some unkind remarks. They will not really be talking about you. They will be projecting their anger about their own situations onto you. But there is much that we can learn from a reconciling couple.
As I said on your other thread, my husband and I are Retrouvaille graduates, and it was the single best thing we ever did in our marriage. Although the weekend and the Post sessions were emotional, all my memories of them are happy and comforting.
