Ok so last night I camped out with son... Didn't get a chance for a good night kiss or "to cop a feel Sara"...
Husband,
I have a way of seeing the positive in people's sitches maybe I can help.
This is ok... there is no hurry... Next time maybe tonight... just keep on pushing yourself
Originally Posted By: husband
So W ended up sleeping in after we came back into the house. I noticed that W was sleeping in son's room... When W finely did get up I asked her how she sleep...She said she woke up at 5:00 am and had a hard time getting back to sleep... She said she tried sleeping in the "Back Room" (our bed room). But then when she woke up she went into son's room.... Ok I don't know if this is a positive or not...! She did try to sleep in OUR room but... She called it the "back Room"...
Wow... and you thought she didn't sleep there because of you??
When you two reconnect maybe you should see about getting another mattress or something... It's the bed fool not you...
Originally Posted By: husband
The rest of the day went ok except I had to go to the next town to get some parts for the jeep... on the way back I started crying... I don't know why... just all of a sudden this sadness came over me like going to Vegas was going to be saying goodbye to my family... By the time I got home things were ok... I continued working on the jeep...
Ok you are right here... It is the end AS YOU KNOW IT. You don't want the "old life” anyway. Remember the end just means that there is a beginning right around the corner... With all of the knowledge you have now just think how great your NEW beginning is going to be...
Originally Posted By: husband
Side note... W MIGHT is getting a "temporary" job back where I now work and she used to... She seemed excited and she is going to call on Monday. This would be great for her PMA... As for me... I started thinking about what had happened back in April and how it will kind of make me feel like a man that could not hold on to his wife.... I know it's just a pride thing but my work was my escape...where I could go and nobody knows that my marriage sucks... I could forget about it there... I will work though this.....
THIS IS IN YOUR HEAD.... just think.... now you can have lunch with her.... maybe put flowers on her desk..... She is not in the same place as she was before.... start romancing her again... "The new beginnings remember???
I hope this helps
Dr Love...
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Ok . I don't have alott of time. Want to get this posted before W gets home.
I did not ask about dinner tonight.. I was thinking and I am going to wait until Monday night. W is calling about a job on monday and she has a good chance of getting it. it is only a temp job but she is excited about it. Soooo I was thinking 1. she will be in a good mood. and 2. It can be a birthday/good luck on the job dinner....
Night
Husband..... Oh ya thanks Dr. Love.. sometimes ya need to think out of the box... stand back and look at your work to really understand it....
bye................
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Ok today is going to be great. EVEN though the first song that came on the radio this morning was....Carrie Underwood - Before He Cheats.
Ok I have FINELY come to the realization that the cheating was NOT the problem in my sitch. YES there was no real excuse for this, and No matter what I do I will NEVER get over the HURT... In my sitch I think that my W "affair" is more of a symptom that the actual Disease...
I WAS going to leave a note today telling W good luck with the job this morning but decided to wait and call her instead...
Then TONIGHT I get to ask for a Date on Friday..... Maybe grab a little butt on the way....Ok its 5 MORE Days............I feel like a kid that is moving out of my parent’s house for the first time.... Never been out on my own.......scary.....
Later... Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Pisces February 19 - March 20 While it's an excellent week for romantic matters overall, pinning all your hopes on one day (you know which!) may lead to some disappointment. As the week begins, new and possibly very sweet understanding is there for you -- reach out and meet it halfway! Matters of the heart are especially favored on Tuesday and Wednesday, and then (lucky you!) again when the weekend comes. As far as Thursday goes, beware of sky-high expectations, keep plans low-key and let love be your guide rather than trying to push it in any particular direction. Show your faith! Leo July 23 - August 22 Hmmm -- looks like you might be on the fence about someone or something this Valentine's Day. Monday's energy won't help much; though you're looking good, feeling likewise and enjoying life (and, likely, love), you're easy to sway now. Tuesday and Wednesday bring more shades of gray rather than the black-and-white kind of situation that's easy to assess (but is likely less fun, too). Leave yourself some wiggle room for the day of hearts and flowers -- you'll know what to do when the time comes. This weekend, that heart of yours is speaking loud and clear -- listen up! Aquarius January 20 - February 18 Your Valentine's Day forecast, in a word: hot!. Looks like you can have a big, beautiful, brilliant idea on Monday -- follow through right away to make the climate right. And while Tuesday and Wednesday might not make temperatures rise, the barometer's pointed to a change of the romantic variety. Thursday -- and, for good measure, Friday, too -- just looks amazing for you. Whether you're single or coupled up, you're smokin' -- go on with your bad self! In the aftermath, a little focus is required -- find it this weekend. Virgo August 23 - September 22 Your love mission this Valentine's Day is communication. It'll take a little forethought and planning to get it just right -- but luckily, you're all about forethought and planning. Concentrate on work on Monday, then tune into your heart around Tuesday and Wednesday (and maybe take a certain someone's pulse as well -- go on, ask!). Truly searching your soul now lets you locate the right words (and things to say without saying a word!) for Thursday. And you'll love being with others this weekend, whether it's various loved ones or one in particular.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
When I leave this Sunday, should I leave giving the W the impression than "husband" is secure in what he is doing? That Husband is going to have a great time by himself? That husband is NOT scared? Than Husband just needs time to think what UI want .Or should I let her know how much I am going to miss her and son? How scared husband is. And how unsure why I am doing this....
I think the answer is #1 but just want to check in with you guy's...
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
I like Sara's reply... short, sweet, and covers both sides of the story.
Did ya get your package yet?? Cause if not something happened.. it should definitely be there by now!
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
Looks like you can have a big, beautiful, brilliant idea on Monday -- follow through right away to make the climate right. And while Tuesday and Wednesday might not make temperatures rise, the barometer's pointed to a change of the romantic variety. Thursday -- and, for good measure, Friday, too -- just looks amazing for you. Whether you're single or coupled up, you're smokin' -- go on with your bad self! In the aftermath, a little focus is required -- find it this weekend.
