Choc, you are right. I darted H with your truth dart about not taking D8 to the play and left the room. I doubt that it will accomplish anything though as I think H is in that fog where he only cares about himself and OW. He honestly was always a very good dad, actually an excellent dad, before the OW and doing that to D8 was a shocker to me and probably to D8 as well! I noticed she is not quite as much a Daddy's girl anymore when we go out, now she is acting like just as much a Mommy's girl too. I guess she realizes she can't count on her Dad anymore which is sad & he's gone so much of the time with OW. I wonder if H notices that (I actually doubt it; he is probably thinking about the OW).
I have another question for anyone that has time to answer! When I get home from rehearsals every night: H will be most likely on his porch where he likes to work & text OW. I get home right there so basically could walk past him and ignore him every night which seems kind of rude, or I could give him a few minutes greeting and tell him about the night (he is friends with most of the people in the play too), or I could just mix it up and just drop by on the porch occasionally when I've had a really great night or something and just drop by a few times a week? I'm trying to be very DB concious and everything, I know you're not supposed to pursue but you are supposed to be friendly, but I still can't figure out which option would be best according to that. Any help is appreciated! Karen43
