sh- Just think...you feared running into your H and the OW...it happened and you are okay...fear conquered. We empower ourselves if we face our fears (intentionally or not) and find out we are still okay.
Your H is avoiding grown up. I think it is the exact same thing my XH did. Hopefully your H will decide to man-up someday soon but regardless, you are seeing who your H is right now and recognizing that he isn't the man you need him to be...that is good. He could be someday but you can't spend your life waiting for that to happen. Go and enjoy your life...and who knows what will happen.
You sound like you are in a good place. I hope you continue...and go enjoy each and every minute with your boys before they become yucky teenagers.
