Been gone for a minute...just doing my thang...GAL and all that!
I don't post about everything, only when something happens that I really don't know how to handle. For the most part I think I've done pretty well, despite the "baby bomb". Don't quite know how to handle that one, so I'm just gonna see how that plays out.
Any-who-dun-it....coupla IN-ter-es-ting things happened since I been here. First, you know H and I were talking about this song that we both really liked. We enjoy the same type of music and not everybody appreciates House music like we do...Old Skool House anyway. A REAL House Head....it's in your BLOOD!!...in your SOUL!!...you live it and FEEL it!!! Anyway....
So I got the song on CD (very hard to find) and I sent him a TM with the song on it. No respose...typical...didn't think much of it...NBD. But maybe a week later I get a TM from H saying he accidently erased the song. Soooo....me being the 'sassy thang' I am...I sent him back "Blow me a kiss and I'll send it back". His response???.........."BLOWING!!;)" Well, that was really nice! I sent the song again....I mean how could I not???
So anyway...this past weekend we talked on the phone. Pleasant enough convo. Seems he has to move again (boo-hoo) and he got the dog he was talking about coupla weeks ago. Cool...
So he was complaining about moving and all the things thats wrong with his apt. so I said why don't you just move back home? He said "I can't right now." I was like, "Oh ok...so I'll just give you a deadline. You tell me the time and date when you'll be ready." It was funny....we both laughed and left it there. Talked a bit more...nice....said goodbyes. The end.
Later that eve, I get a text from H. Now this is a forwarded text...like the jokey kind of thing....
"Do me a favor please remind me to remind you that this reminder is to remind me to remind you that I LOVE YOU ;)"
Now how the HELL am I supposed to take that??!!! This is what is confusing me. It was a forwarded text, and I can see what number it originally came from, and NO I did NOT call the number! Wanted to but...didn't! But that means that 'somebody else' sent it to him before he forwarded to me. And, and, and, then....how many OTHER people did HE send it to????
I haven't responded to it cuz I don't know what to make of it. I'm kinda of the mindset that it was a friendship kind of text...a mass broadcasting type of thing, ya know?? I want to respond 'ILY2' but #1) I'm still in strong DB mode (how do you switch it off??) and #2) What if he didn't mean it that way? and #3) What if he DID mean it that way but felt SAFER doing it like that?