Update to my sitch, the end has come

[cat03]

How will she react when she is sure that blanket, that NET is gone? How far will she fall next time? I know its all about the kids, always has been for me,..
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I've been my H's "security blanket" for 2 yrs, and was also was an enabler, he never really grew up and stood for our M fully. I dont' know how far my H will fall this time (things are stable, but that's now) but I know that I've walked through fire -like you- and now it is time to let go. Nope, we have no assurances that this time around they'll learn to love themselves enough to shape up and fight for their M and R, but we have gone well above and beyond the call of duty. I've been told that "you can't save a man from himself"-- it has been very hard for me to understand and let my H go (we are on a mutual S right now), but it must be done.
Your w might sink or she might swim, this isn't your battle anymore, you will never be accused of not trying hard enough, at your own detriment you've hanged on, but there is a limit to everything and now you must cease to try to control the sitch your W has put herself into.
Protect your girls and yourself, it's time you let go and take time to heal yourself and be healthy.
You are still in my prayers)))))))))