Edie,
Your H sounds fairly defensive. I don't like his response to your request to have your car back. I'm concerned about his failure to accept that he has something to work on in marital therapy.

I'm wondering in general about how respectful he is to you.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching