Hi Ingrid,

I know it's hard, but I would try not to label the r. If it's MLC, it's not going to be an abrupt ending to the crisis (maybe he's nearing the end, though? That's what I'm hoping in my sitch). In the meantime, you could post in both forums.

Did he give up the apartment?
Have a great day.

me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08