need to get to a more detached place focusing on the road ahead my new life not on H practice zipping my tongue and just continue with my DBpeace
Good for you...this is exactly what you need to be doing. new_attitude is exactly right. Make it a challenge to enjoy your life as much as you possibly can and when your H finally is able to look your way he will notice.
Glad to hear you had fun line dancing...go take lessons...sounds like a great way GAL.
I was talking to a friend yesterday trying to explain why I need to give my H his time and space. I said that if I was the one having the crisis, I would want my H to try to give me whatever I needed in order to heal...how could I do any less for my H than I would want him to do for me? I think that helped my friend understand.