Finding my way out of the dark

[missmyfriend]

Mishka, it is not uncommon for the MLCer to have little or NC with the children. I had read in the resources that the MLCer seems to have the opposite contact with their children than pre-MLC, i.e. if they were doting parents before, they have less contact. If they were non-involved parents before they seem to reconnect with their children. In my case, my W was not having much interaction with the kids since MLC. Before she was the best mom you can imagine. She still is a good mom but not available like before. It is hard on the kids. I simply remind the kids how their mom has been for most of their lives and that this is temporary. It helps a lot.