Keep the ring ON. You are still married to her and if she sees you without it on she may feel you have totally given up on her. While she says she wants out we all know not to believe any of what an MLC'er says and only half of their actions. Continue to show her love from a distance, you know that uncodnitional love and respect without drowning her in it as to avoid pushing her away. I would keep in contact with her about D especially while D is ill and hey, why not throw in a quick, "And you(insert W's name)have you gotten sick also?" Or a quick, "And have you gotten sick, I sure hope not, let me know what I can do to help you while D is ill." types of things. Your L may not approve but you are her father and tough SH*T!!! LOL!!!! Come on RTL you know you want to crack a smile.


Both 35
T 19/M 15 years
S8/D5
It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07

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