You're probably right, I'm too big a softie. I would have hit the roof in anger/pride etc a few months ago, but I just really feel pity for W now. She is damaging herself so badly and all I can do is stand back and watch now.
Kids are, afaik, still not being exposed to any of her infidelity. I am not soft enough to let her do something like that, my kids are more important to me than she will ever be again.
You keep that supply of 2x4's choc, everyone needs a few of those upside the head regularly here *8)
Me: 35 W: 34 S8 & S5 M: 11 IDLY: 08/2007
"Freedom's just another word for nothing left to lose" - Janis Joplin, Me and Bobby McGee
"Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about dancing in the rain!"