Yesterday D12 had a swim meet. H thought that he may have to work and suprised me by calling and telling me he would be there.
We watched the meet together he came over after and cooked me dinner. It was delicious. We hung out for a bit and watched tv with d12 while s15 was downstairs. He was not too happy H was there. At one point s15 told me that I was crazy and H was only going to hurt me again. UGH!!
S15 had some friends stop by . They, as usual, stayed downstairs, but you could hear the fun they were having. It brought H to tears and he ran out crying.
H sent me a tm apologizing for running out but he could hear the fun s15 was having. I tm him back that I wished he stayed ...that he belong here too. He said he didn't belong anywhere. That s15 hates him and doesn't need him. UGH. I really didn't want to argue this point with him...I just told him that s15 loves him deep down but he is hurting and I left it at that.
I am hoping when he goes to counseling today he will talk to C about this. I just can't fix it. S15 is so stubborn and does not trust H and H is so stubborn and will just wallow in this and not fix anything. UGH.
It was nice to spend time with H. THere is a bowl of seafood fettuccini left and I offered for H to take it back to his parent's and he said to leave it here, we can eat it tomorrow. So, he will probably be here at some point. We have d12's parent conference today which should be interesting.
Off to start the day. I love mondays when I don't have to work!!
