{{{WCW}}}

Hi-Jack away dahling....FEEL FREE! and a

Oh Thank God you understood what I was saying! I read those posts so many times trying to see where I had mis-communicated, but perhaps it wasn't my lack of communication, it was just coming from a different direction? I am a rescuer by nature and it's hard for me to crucify even the guilty. Especially when I chose to accept and try to change. (the execption would be myself as I seem to have no problems crucifying me). Also I find it a bit challenging to keep popping the dictionary up to fully understand a word...yes, don't get me wrong, I know big words, but to me, it's easier to speak in a language we all can understand....Webster put small words in the dictionary for a reason ya know ;\)
Disclaimer! I love BIG WORDS and people who use BIG WORDS \:\) I am not bashing intellecuality here!

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The killer though is when he does act kind or do something nice for me and I think is this a change? Not really, but he gets me every time even after all this time. I am stuck, he is stuck, we are stuck together, which in his mind means misery
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YES YES YES!! Are we suckers or what? No, we are just trying to keep the faith and not quite ready to give up just yet. Thats all. Most would say whats the problem, he's paying the bills, your in the house, life should be good right? Wrong! It's like being a prisioner, unable to move in a healthy direction whithout upsetting the Captain I have to learn to accept what keeps me stuck, and figure out a way to get this man to speak to me without HIM thinking I am plotting an overtake of his Kingdom.

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Just like you with the house, you can't really move on with your life when you still have ties that bind. It's like they don't want to let you go enough that you don't still need them for something


Exactly!!! WHY? Is he lazy. Un-motivated? Too busy? Waiting for the market to improve? Thinking of one day returning? Punishing me??? Waiting for pigs to fly? WHY???

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He said sure, even if he wasn't living here I could still count on him to do chores while I was gone. I asked why he would want to do that? His answer - just because I leave doesn't mean I have to hate you
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Whoa Girl....where is your thread!?!? I need to find out HOW it came about that HE was actually able to form a conversation with you, AND how HE can come over and help with HIS HOME!?!? The only way I know Rich knows he still OWNS a home is his bitching about payting the mortgage....OH WAIT! The sprinkler motor....he did pick that up several months ago to get repaired, not sure where it's at now...but I will make an educated guess and says it's rolling around happily in the back of his truck.

I'd say we'd pair up and solution solve but we would post at a snails pace......or something that crawls even slower.

I shall try and find your thread!

Thanks so much WCW! I'll be a happy camper today.

Jeanette

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