Calling all experts, non experts...serious opinion

[bright 2 morro]

Kiki,
I am feeling your pain in regards to the money. I am under the financial presure as we speak. I am getting it all.

This is only what I can afford. I am told I am gready and selfish if I do not agree to his amount. I never consider him or what he could have with the kids.

We are off by about 600 a month. He asked me to think about an offer but in conversations he implies that if I do anything but what he wants he will fight me in court. He has even told me that if I don't agree to his amount he will never consider coming back but if I do there may still be a chance.

Yesterday I actually got the guts up to tell him that if he wants to think that I do not consider him that there was nothing I could do. I told him that he could stop threatening me with the marriage because I did not care if he wanted to come back or not (which I have gotten to that point now). I told him that when he left for someone else he gave up all rights to think that I should look out for his well being because he obviously did not take our marriage seriously.

I guess I have gotten to the point that I do not care anymore. And I will not let him manipulate me into giving him everything he wants. I no longer need to please him.

I did want out marriage back and I wish it could be. I am not sure if that is what I want anymore. He tells me he cares about me but if he did how could he be doing everything he is to me.

Keep up the good spirits. Have you made a decision about what you are going to do?

B2M