Beginning again like a newbie

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Thanks BM,

I did get a reply from H re my email asking for us to both sit down with the children to apologise for our behaviour and then to leave it in the past where it belongs.

His reply:

You could stop hurting the children straight away by telling your solicitor to go ahead with the divorce. you have the choice !!!!

I thanked him for his reply noting that his opinions were clearly different to mine. I told him about the apologies I have already made and that I would continue in that vein when D17 comes home from her holiday. I also told him about the discussions re D with S15 and that actually his views lie somewhere between mine and Hs. I finished by saying I was glad that he agreed that I had a choice.

So from now on no more emails, even about the children. If he wants to know about thier lives he will have to make the effort. I'm more sure than ever that there will be a D now but I won't be hurrying it along as it still isn't what I want.

I tried. It just wasn't good enough