Sorry, dude. I try to provide what I perceive to be missing. If you were being too hard-azz, I'd be suggesting a Vermont Teddy Bear. \:\/

Seriously, how much do you know about emotional affairs? Have you -- or your wife -- read the book "Not Just Friends"? As men, we are especially succeptible to the misconception of "Hey, it's 'only' an emotional affair." When a woman gives of herself emotionally, the affair is much harder to break than a "mere" sexual relationship, even an ongoing one.

- Choc.