Serial EA/PA WAW/MLC

[BradNL]

My Thread

Ok, I have my thread in newcomers but I've just been woken up to the fact that W is trawling for a new relationship online, keeping various men on the line on IM and testing them out if they pass her wacko criteria...

I suspect W has had at least two PA's (one night stands?) among all the EA's she is conducting in parallel. I know for certain W's last PA only lasted the one time, he decided after having sex with her that he'd rather stay an IM friend... ouch! Guess that didn't work out quite the way W expected.

Anyway, W has totally switched off to me now, being more and more hostile to me and the kids. Her exercise/weight loss issues are in overdrive and I suspect her health is going to tank pretty soon too. She has quit her (3 month lasting) job and the money from that has dried up, along with most of our joint bank account.

Used to get hugs and kisses in the morning, snuggling at night because W was cold, all gone now it seems. Maybe she has a new EA or is still miserable because the last PA rejected her physically (and she has HUGE body image issues)? Is it normal after only 6 months to be so detached that her whole PA and EA stuff doesn't actually bother me as much as her behaviour towards the kids and myself?

Also know that she is planning to start the divorce in June/July... hope she has a job by then because there is no way my salary will come close to supporting two households and I'm not happy with the idea of my kids living in relative poverty (or around W's string of men she is trying to seduce a comfortable living out of).

Would be greatly appreciative of some advice and support from some of the veterans here. I know choc would say "confront her and kick her out" (yeah, I've been watching you choc!) but I don't think I want to do that quite yet, I love my kids and they will suffer more with W gone (even if she is being a unreliable mother these days).

Brad