Well I'm just about on 3 1/2 years.

Not hopeless though we've gone through dramatic changes. My sitch has come a long way.

Some good advice from the guys. You should probably read it a few times.

You seem to think there are only two choices

1) Stick around and make nice for your wife.
2) Leave

What about not concerning yourself with the marriage (as much as you can do so) and going out and doing things you enjoy.

Might seem like a silly suggestion but I bet it would change something. I wish I had done more of that early on. Might have moved along much faster.

Good luck and I'll check back


Xue

50-60% of marriages are successful
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