Sorry for the rough weekend, hon. Is there any way to step back from the R arguments so you don't catch the blame for his problems at work?
The BS radar is natural...don't let it suck you in. Let it roll off your back! Time to come up with a response that gets you out of the sitch...he shouldn't have to feel like he has to come up with BS for you, KWIM? Something along the lines of, "thanks for the information, but don't feel like you owe me explanations..." That's pretty rough, but you see what I mean? Don't put yourself in the sitch where the BS comes up if at all possible.
I'm glad you got some GALing in. Good luck with your V-Day dinner--see if you can keep it light and lessen the opportunities for blame and BS.
