Second thread locked up. I suppose at some point it won't be a big deal anymore.

I have no idea where things are right now. I don't think I can ask (can I?) and from the experiences of others, I guess it's possible to be 'working' on our M for a long time before my H actually acknowledges that that's going on.

I have a feeling I won't be posting much on this thread - unless things take a turn for the worse (or better, I guess) - because there are only so many ways you can say that nothing's changed!

I've been in the 'computer room' for about an hour (working on a project) and my H has been sitting beside me playing his favourite (violent) computer game. At first, it was really freaking me out - I know there are women there too - but now I've calmed down a little bit, as he's talking to me and explaining a bit about what's going on. I wish he didn't like that kind of stuff, but if it's only a game, I can live with it.

He's looked over at my screen a few times and I have been much too obviously protective of it since I switched over to this site. Wonder what he thinks I'm doing?

I've been thinking of changing my display name, because I can see myself wanting to refer friends to this site, but not particularly wanting them to go and read all my posts, so I need a 'disguise'. For those that want to continue to drop in, I'll let you know what I'll be changing it to once I think of something.

Starting to really enjoy all these little emoticons - that's a bit of a 180 for me!