But she can only do this when she understands, Why.
Without therapy, she will never understand the pain
She caused you, your kids, your family, her family
And now herself.
I personally and categorically disagree that therapy is the only way to come to understand what a person has done as a WAS. I came to understand crystal clear what I had done and it happened over a course of every night for two weeks alone in my bedroom with my face to the floor in repentance. There are some things that don't require a therapist's help to comprehend. Just repentance and a sincere desire to see oneself as GOD sees them no matter what that might cost them in personal brokenness at the time.
