It sounds like your H is really hurt by your dating other men. I think that is understandable cause I am going through my H dating an OW now. I have read that you are supposed to answer your spouse's questions and I think if you do decide to do that, you should try to remain calm and not do it in an angry way. If you just get in fights, then maybe you should both agree not to do that or at least not for a while until you are able to do so without the fighting? I think you have a good point about your spouse moving back in to work on the R if he is serious, but maybe someone that is more experienced than I will weigh in with their opinion since I am relatively new to these boards! Karen43
