"you have a lot of things to be upset with me about"
IMHO this is him telling you that he still feels you control him. Only this week I realised this about my own sitch. You and I both have to learn not to react to whatever our Hs throw our way. I'm not saying don't feel hurt but i am saying don't let him know you are hurt.
I feel like I've just spent 2yrs doing everything wrong (even though I thought at the time what I was doing was for the best). Now I have to change before I loose everything. FWIW I think you need to do the same.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
