Very nice on the good night kiss. Now slide your hands up her torso....
Sara,
Give me a break..... It's been over a year.... I had to "adjust" myself as it was... today was GREAT.... Recived a card from a VERY special person in the mail... Got some more done on the tree house, took son to Baseball tryouts..it's 72 degress outside sO I told W I was going to BBQ...
IT's good to be King....
Later Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
LOL!!! Yeah, this has been a week of "adjustments" for ME as well. Danced with my wife last night in the kitchen and she said "Oh, I see you like this song..."
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Me: 39/W: 37 D13-D11-S8 M/T 14/20
EA confirmed: 9/13/07 D-Bomb: 9/19/07 OM Gone since 12/18/07 W wants to fix marriage: 3/16/07
I'm thinking along the same lines as Sara...what do you think would happen if you did more than just a kiss? I'm not sure how you two have been interacting other than the positives you've been reporting on here, but like you said...it's been a year. Maybe a little ice breaking is in order and one is waiting on the other to make the first move.
Just a thought. I wouldn't see where a little more of a move would hamper your DBing. Might be something to try before the Vegas trip to leave her something to think about. Who knows? You might be surprised by her reaction
Ok so last night I camped out with son... Didn't get a chance for a good night kiss or "to cop a feel Sara"... So W ended up sleeping in after we came back into the house. I noticed that W was sleeping in son's room... When W finely did get up I asked her how she sleep...She said she woke up at 5:00 am and had a hard time getting back to sleep... She said she tried sleeping in the "Back Room" (our bed room). But then when she woke up she went into son's room.... Ok I don't know if this is a positive or not...! She did try to sleep in OUR room but... She called it the "back Room"... The rest of the day went ok except I had to go to the next town to get some parts for the jeep... on the way back I started crying... I don't know why... just all of a sudden this sadness came over me like going to Vegas was going to be saying goodbye to my family... By the time I got home things were ok... I continued working on the jeep...
Side note... W MIGHT is getting a "temporary" job back where I now work and she used to... She seemed excited and she is going to call on Monday. This would be great for her PMA... As for me... I started thinking about what had happened back in April and how it will kind of make me feel like a man that could not hold on to his wife.... I know it's just a pride thing but my work was my escape...where I could go and nobody knows that my marriage sucks... I could forget about it there... I will work though this.....
OK NOW SARA... tonight we are going to my sisters for my nephews B-day party.... TONIGHT when we get home I am going to ask W if she will go out to dinner with me on Friday..... IF SHE DOES.... MIL will have son just for our dinner date and then we will be picking him up... BUT...... BEFORE I go to bed that night.. (The next day is my B-Day party)... I WILL thank her for the dinner date and when giving her my good night kiss I will see if I can get to Second base.... If ya know what I mean....
I.C yes the positives are great and please continue to give my inputs... As for W and I there is very little physical contact unless I initiate it...
7 More days to Vegas. Later Dr Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Today, if you let yourself get drawn into a mystery, you will be giving this mystery power over you. Don't try to figure out why things are happening the way they are happening. Not only do you not have enough time to waste on such melodrama, you won't be very satisfied by the solution. So just roll with the punches and try to get comfortable with the ambiguous elements of your life right now. Your future will be full of them, too -- so the sooner you learn how the handle them, the better.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
