I agree, but if I just keep ignoring her won't it just seperate us more? It jut feels like I am drifting farther and farther away from her. I mean, that's fine if we are not getting to get back together. But in that case why am I hanging on? This has been aterrible day for me
Patrick, no it will not cause you to drift farther away. What you are doing right now is causing you to drift away. No contact and she will wonder if you have moved on, and it MIGHT cause her to move toward you. I cannot guarantee it will help anything, but I can guarantee if you keep doing what you are doing it will push her further away. Man, you have to understand that you cannot change anyone, all you can do is change yourself. With that being said, if you do these things and she is still determined to get out, there is nothing you can do to stop her. I know its tough, been there done that and at the end of the day, I am divorced, but I have seen too many of these to know what happens if you chase.
