Today, if you let yourself get drawn into a mystery, you will be giving this mystery power over you. Don't try to figure out why things are happening the way they are happening. Not only do you not have enough time to waste on such melodrama, you won't be very satisfied by the solution. So just roll with the punches and try to get comfortable with the ambiguous elements of your life right now. Your future will be full of them, too -- so the sooner you learn how the handle them, the better.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know