BND,

Only a parent could know how traumatic that is. For some reason, boys don't get em cause they don't primp and share hair brushes.

But at least when Sarah did have them, my entire house was spotless and so was my car. It was traumatic for me, not her.

No, I haven't yet reached a decision. I need to call X and see if he''s up to doing our regular milestone birthday thing on Wednesday and take them to dinner. I dread that, but he's always pleasant since the D, so that is what I will do. I'm getting ready to go to Best Buy and look around - again.