Hi Jenny! I was just catching up on your thread and thought how weak I have been lately. Then I read about your meltdown. I believe everything on Earth has a melting point, some just have a higher one. As I was reading your post it gave me a lot to think about what I have been doing wrong and how far I still have to go.
I do believe that you are detaching w/ love. The problem is you have 2 different Hs...the man you fell in love w/ and the man he has become. It is easy to detach from the alien, but it is really hard to detach from the hope that the old H will come back.
I think one thing that makes it hard to forgive the WAS is that they don't take responsibility for what has happened and what is continuing to happen.
