Divorce and separation has 2 parts to it. You lose your spouse but you also lose time with your kids. That part is so unfair to the BS and the kids...the part that the WAS' don't understand or they rationalize it away. I think it was perfectly natural how you were feeling yesterday. It really had nothing to do with your H. You missed your babies. You or they didn't ask for this and it was shoved upon you.

You did well. Better than I would have. More than anything, sharing time with an infant scares me to death. Hang in there and have a good day.


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!