You guys don't seem to have much of a routine with the kids - Not that anyone wants to schedule time 'away' from them, but days here and there really cause a lot of stress.
Actually, this week was the first week of our set shedule. Which is why I am having a hard time with it. I hope it gets easier with time. No matter what I can't get it out of my head that this is wrong and that kids this small shouldn't be away from either parent like this. Doesn't matter though I have to accept it and make the best of the sitch regardless for my kids.
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I feel as guilty as hell for not giving W more time with D when I know W is feeling very lonely and unhappy. We all know my situation is ass backwards and stupid, so I'm certainly not trying to draw comparisons, but I do realize how tough it is and how difficult it can be to manage a family that is split in two.
And I think we can all draw comparisons in one way or another. Try not to feel guilty for this...your W has chosen this, not you. Try to remember that.
Miss IC...I'm sorry I made you cry! I thought I'd done enough of that for everyone yesterday. Thanks for your support.
WTG...I don't know of anyone else who lives near TO...I'm trying to figure out a way we could exchange e-mail addresses without doing it on the public boards. I tried to send you a private message but it didn't work.
J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out
