CL,
You continue to show great patience. Keep it up!

I think a trip to PR in the Spring would be great. It might be a way to connect. Vacations tend to bring out the romantic, fun, care-free side in people. Try to make that into a reality.

Married 9 years
Kids 5 and 6
Bomb 2006
H back and forth for a year
M now back on track