Small positive steps, what now?

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Kalni
As someone that has really helped me in my sitch, I just wanted to tell you that I am thinking of you and tell you to hang in there. For me, I know W is still not sure that my changes are genuine. Consistency and patience will be important for us too. It is very hard, I know, especially when you see little in return. I think everyone will be different in how long it will take before "she's being manipulative" turns into "wow, maybe this is really what she is". Weeks? Months? I just hope that when it happens for my W that I will have made her a nice warm place to land, and be able to welcome her with an open heart. Good luck.