12/12/07, @ 10.15 I was sat in work and I thought I was cracking up, normally I can journal through the day on IM across the office with my 2 year divorced friend who has been my daily crouch who I can lean on. He wishes he had tried as hard as me to save his marriage, which is why he has been very encouraging to me.
Anyway he wasn't in the office, I was sat there knowing in full knowledge that W has spent the previous weekend with OM and I felt she was being very blatant about things and rubbing my nose in it. Well without thinking any further I phoned W and told her I'd had enough, when we get home tonight lets settle things cos if she wanted to be with OM then we'd have to D. At that point W semi confessed to being with OM but said it was over with him, she also said didn't want a D.
Well that phone call was a major turning point for me as I had actually given up and was ready to move on. But I think that 180 caught W by surprise and since then we've started moving towards reconciling. Now I'm not saying you do the same, cos you can only do that if you've really given up. But if you feel what you're doing isn't working, maybe its time to try something else. Yeah, have a bit more of a think of what your options are and run them by us, lets see what we can come up with for you.
